OK we all know that it does not take much more then a stiff wind or accidental brush across a man pants to get him to rise to the occasion. But what makes him instantly front and center, at attention and ready for action?

1. VISUAL INSPIRATION

Most of the time a slight glance of cleavage or skirt that is a little too high might be the start to something. Men see in visual terms and if you are revealing a little more than usual or come home with an outfit that shall we say is not quite what you are accustomed to, you may have an upward reaction to say the least. Have your man see you in a different light wearing something that may be slightly revealing or not your norm. Add a little fantasy to the mix. You also don't have to dress like a hussy to get him to notice, in most cases it's the area that is covered up that make a man wonder what might be underneath, that hidden

2. ALL NATURAL

Pulling or tugging gently on a man's balls will get him and keep him hard continuously. Many women don't realize that there are many other elements to focus on other then the penis. The balls play an important role in the vitality of his organ. Licking them or gently rubbing them also may do the trick. Another area that may be overlooked is the taint. The area between the anus and the balls is an area that is often untouched but highly sensitive and erogenous to a man. The littlest flicker or soft rubbing will not only make him hard but heighten the experience all the way through. Don't ignore the anus; this will add a jolt in the bedroom for most men. Stimulating the prostate or even coming close to it will get a rise out of most. Whether you use your tongue or finger, it is sure to be a pleasurable experience.

3. TOOLS OF THE TRADE

Many shops have aids to keep your man optimal. There are creams like "Sta-Hard" which is a desensitizing cream used to help the man pro long an erection and delay premature ejaculation. Another handy tool is a cock ring which is most often used to make an erect penis harder and bigger, to keep it that way for a longer amount of time, and to delay and heighten orgasm. These items work by constricting blood flow, keeping blood in the shaft of the penis. When a wearer finally does ejaculate, the sensation is more intense, since it took a longer time to cum and the since the penis is filled with additional blood flow.

4. ORAL ACTION

This is a no brainer. Most men love when a woman will take the time and the interest to pleasure them in this way, especially if she is able to savor the moment and really pay special attention to this area. The head is the most sensitive section and the combination of sucking on the area and gently cupping it in the palm of your hand (sort of like the way you would derive juice from an orange in a juicer) seems to be the most effective. Also grasping the lubricated shaft, sliding it up and down while orally injecting it into your mouth will work wonders.

5. MENTAL MAINTENANCE

Like women, men also like to be mentally challenged. Prepare them for the upcoming evening you have planned. Send them dirty or erotic text messages or voice messages describing exactly what you plan to do to them that night. If you are out to dinner or grabbing a drink together, whisper something in their ear or give them a tantalizing look to set the mood. Tickle their neck or back or run your fingers through their hair on the way home. Any sensual or sexual touch will have them fully charge for your amazing evening ahead. If you have enjoyed the previous evening and awake refreshed and wanting more, there is no better time to find your man harder and ready for action then in the morning. This is when he is mentally and physically recharged and will gain the quickest and most satisfying orgasm right in the light of day. What an amazing wake up call for the both of you!

In the end, whether you choose to enhance the experience with toys or creams or to try the natural techniques, your man will be most seduced by you and you alone.

Story by Missy Heckman.

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